We often create problems in our relationships (work and personal) because we express things that actually are just our personal feelings and observations as if they are facts..
So because your partner has been a bit more quiet than usual lately, you accuse him or her of keeping something from you. That's just wrong. Rather you should say something like "You've been keeping to yourself a lot lately. I can't help but notice that you are bothered about something"
This approach will cause much less issues and is guaranteed to yield better results..
© Iymmahnuel
Everyone needs to read this
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